This makes perfect sense… as long as there’s an agreement on how joint expenses are handled. If that’s the case, each partner should have some autonomy over “their” money. - Andy Spears - Medium

4. I have my own bank accounts. So yes, we share bank accounts, but I also have my own accounts, as does he. I don’t ask him what he does with the money in his account, and he doesn’t ask me.

There Are Some Things I Don’t Like to Share With My Husband

Ruby Lee

Sep 24, 2022

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This makes perfect sense… as long as there’s an agreement on how joint expenses are handled. If that’s the case, each partner should have some autonomy over “their” money.

Andy Spears

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Writer and policy advocate living in Nashville, TN —Public Policy Ph.D. — writes on education policy, consumer affairs, and more . . .

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