This is THE biggest myth - I read a quotation the other day - "You can't make someone love you by giving them MORE of what they already don't appreciate." Definitely resonated - there's this idea… - Andy Spears

…e your experience is normal, that everyone behaves like this, that all relationships are like this, that if you work harder and give more, you can make it work.

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Andy Spears

Jul 2, 2022

This is THE biggest myth - I read a quotation the other day - "You can't make someone love you by giving them MORE of what they already don't appreciate." Definitely resonated - there's this idea that if "things were better" - that if YOU are better, the situation will magically become amazing.... It won't.