This is THE biggest myth - I read a quotation the other day - "You can't make someone love you by giving them MORE of what they already don't appreciate." Definitely resonated - there's this idea that if "things were better" - that if YOU are better, the situation will magically become amazing.... It won't.
Writer and policy advocate living in Nashville, TN —Public Policy Ph.D. — writes on education policy, consumer affairs, and more . . .