this is key. Dealing with issues, past traumas. Of course, doing so will change you. Maybe the new, better you won't be so appealing to your partner - or, you may become an even BETTER partner - stronger, more clarity. But you're right, if you don't deal, you won't heal - and that will inevitably create trouble.

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Writer and policy advocate living in Nashville, TN —Public Policy Ph.D. — writes on education policy, consumer affairs, and more . . .

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Andy Spears

Andy Spears

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Writer and policy advocate living in Nashville, TN —Public Policy Ph.D. — writes on education policy, consumer affairs, and more . . .