This is a HUGE problem - a red flag! If he cared, he'd say something/acknowledge - and I mean, we should have partners who encourage us to be the best versions of ourselves. Also, if you know you have an alcohol problem - and you ARE admitting it is a problem - why aren't YOU doing something about it... in fact, you have a firm grasp of the imbalance here - and, well, do you love him?
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