This does seem fun - and taking a bit of time to pause and ease into a social situation can be great. I've definitely found that having a drink in hand helps at social events. I don't want to be offered a drink and reflexively say "yes" - and, well, I want to have a drink in hand that I enjoy. These are some great suggestions - and I've also found that just taking a moment to step away can help ease the anxiety that I used to ease with alcohol.