Glad you found that confidence - giving can be such a delight, but if the receiver is feeling "off" or unsure about it, it can be an unsatisfying experience - sex-positive writing and sex-positive friends can be a big help - open communication with a prospective partner is also helpful. For me, just letting go - and enjoying all the available pleasure - a big ask, but very important.


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