For me, I began to find a sense of belonging in a recovery group - people who had done some of the things I had - and whose minds worked a lot like mine did. From this group, I learned some principles that have helped me in the larger world - at work, in finding a church home - having a warm, welcoming group offers us a sense of security out "in the world," too - it helped me become "comfortable in my own skin" - no matter the group. Thank you for sharing your story, your journey.