Ah, yes - the elusive family gathering where the whole family actually gathers. And then, well, gets along - I last saw all my aunts/uncles/cousins on my mom's side in 2008. Have seen some of them sparingly sense. Turns out, if one of my mom's brothers/sisters MIGHT be somewhere, a few of the others (and their kids) won't show up. Family feuding seems so silly. But can be painful, too.