Ah, yes - a favorite. You do the thing in the "just right" way and then they ask WHY you did that or WHY you didn't ALSO .... the idea, of course, is to keep you off balance and heighten your instinct to please them. You must stay constantly in tune with the narc in order to keep them happy. Fail and you will be punished.

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Writer and policy advocate living in Nashville, TN —Public Policy Ph.D. — writes on education policy, consumer affairs, and more . . .

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Andy Spears

Andy Spears

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Writer and policy advocate living in Nashville, TN —Public Policy Ph.D. — writes on education policy, consumer affairs, and more . . .